I read a lot of personal finance blogs because it's a topic that's near and dear to my heart, and it's interesting the ideas that some people come up with. For example, I just read an old post about how you have to think like a millionaire in order to become one. I have trouble with parts of the blog post, so I'll quote them here and add my thoughts.
"To become a millionaire, you must become comfortable thinking and acting like a millionaire. If you can’t get there in your mind first, you won’t get there in your reality."
I'm not sure how millionaires are supposed to think, but according to The Millionaire Next Door they tend to lead very modest lifestyles and live frugally. However, I don't believe that is what the blogger meant to convey, given the context of his subsequent statements.
"...I realized that if I were a millionaire, I’d carry more cash in my wallet. At the time I was comfortable having $50-70 in my wallet. $100 felt like a lot. So I went to the ATM and took out $200 and put it in my wallet. It felt uncomfortable to carry that much cash, but I got used to it after a few weeks. Over time I gradually raised my baseline until it felt normal having $300-500 in my wallet. Now when I have only $200 in my wallet, I sense a desire to go to the ATM."
I'm not sure what the purpose of carrying a huge wad of cash around is, other than to feel like a drug dealer perhaps. I prefer to carry as little cash as possible, and use my reward credit card to make my purchases with. If I have more than $50 in my wallet, I'd feel an urge to go to the bank to make a deposit. I am reminded of a friend who used to be a heavy cash user, and once lost his wallet with $400 dollars in it (which he never saw that again). I'd rather keep my cash in my bank account earning interest for me.
"...I realized that to a millionaire, any sum below $100 or so is essentially irrelevant. If you’re already a millionaire, a few dollars here and there just don’t matter. Worrying about those kinds of sums is like fussing over pennies. I started telling myself that there’s no financial difference whatsoever between a $20 dinner and a $50 dinner. Going to a $9 movie is nearly identical to seeing a $90 show on the Las Vegas Strip. Those amounts are just pennies anyway."
This is so not true, especially for self-made millionaires. Those of us that have made our own fortunes understand the value of a dollar, and would never treat money like it grows on trees. I watch and track every dollar I spend, and I weigh the cost of an item against what I'm getting in exchange to make sure that my money is used wisely and in accordance with my priorities. And for the record, I've never bought tickets to a Vegas show, and I would gag at spending $50 on a single meal for myself.
"Let’s be clear that I didn’t suddenly adopt foolhardy spending habits, even on low amounts, because a millionaire wouldn’t spend money foolishly. I kept my expenses reasonable, but I learned to stop fussing over amounts that really didn’t matter, like whether or not I should order a drink (non-alcoholic of course) with dinner. I’m never going to miss the $2 whether I become a millionaire or not."
I order free water with my meals because 1) I think $2 a drink is a rip-off when I can get the same exact thing for under a buck at the supermarket, and 2) water is probably healthier for me.
"Today any expense below $100 is effectively meaningless to me. $100 isn’t even 10% of a day’s earnings. This makes many purchasing decisions easier, since if the price difference between two items is less than $100 (such as the difference between two iPod models), I don’t even worry about it — I just buy the better model. The price difference is only pennies anyway."One hundred dollars is a huge amount of money to me, and if I'm going to pay that much more for something, it had better be damn well worth it. You can be sure I'd be doing research to make sure that extra $100 is justified.
So, what do millionaires really think like?
- We pay attention to details, and watch even the small expenses, because little things can snowball into big ones if left unchecked.
- We check prices to make sure that we're getting a good value on all but the least expensive items, and we use coupons whenever possible.
- We make our money work for us instead of letting it sit idle in our pockets (or under the mattress).
- We manage our own money instead of letting others handle it because no one cares more about our finances than us.
To summarize, we do not treat money like it is easy to come by--because it's not. It represents the valuable time and effort that we invested to generate our income, and we're not inclined to let it flow out of our pockets without thought. I'm not one to be penny wise and pound foolish and obsess over a few pennies, but $100 (or even $50) is far from a small deal in my opinion.